soulmates and other stuff..

over the years of being an ear to friends, this subject has popped up quite abit..does it exist?karma, fate, predestined souls meant to be together?personally, no, i do not believe that soulmates exist.i believe that two people work very hard when they keep their relationship alive and kicking. i believe it takes alot of understanding, trust, conviction, humour, communication and sometimes, mind-blowing sex. i believe that sometimes when you love someone, your ego needs to take a backseat. i believe that its ok to fight, but its even better to make up....so no, i guess i dont believe in the universe making the decision of who i'm supposed to be in love with..i do however believe in me. (and you..jomsolat :P)

shit man, the season of twinkly lights and big giant plastic trees are upon us again..let the senseless shopping begin!!went to one-u on saturday and its unbelievable how many women were in bodyshop..buying nice smelling thingys for their so-and-sos..aiyohhhhhhh...didja know that the body shop makes all their profit during christmas and new year?i happen to know that little fact because i recall my days working as a poor underpaid cashier girl there..(see, private skool kids work!)
but i digress..so, having seen these women jostling each other to get to that lassst oceanus gift pack worth 69.80 but marked down to 69.70, i made a resolution this year to not get gifts..no sir..not one!its gonna be money or gift vouchers..call me cold and unfeeling but i mean, come onlah..when was the last chrissy present you actually enjoyed??ah see?cannot remember right?so dont come and throw that guilty blanket on me by saying ive lost the spirit of christmas lah and its the thought that counts lah..bull bloody shit..if the thought was there, then the present should be good!:P..oklah, i'll wrap the bloody voucher lah ok?that'll make it seem more pressie like,no? (eh, for those of you condemning me to hell right now, please ah..youre lucky youre gonna get presents ok?)

went to an indian wedding last weekend, it was beautiful...the saris were gorgeous, the bride was ravishing in gold and the groom was so smart in his tux.see, i had the misconception that indian weddings were long winded and traditional and this one was an arranged marriage so i thought, thats it lah..there goes my night man..especially since the bride and groom are in advertising and god knows if its one thing advertising people do is talk..but it turned out so different..it was such a beautiful experience, the bridesmaids were stewardesses..(boys, dont worry, i'll get the pictures up!) and everything went really quickly once it got started..not like chinese weddings lah you know,where the food comes one course by one course and you got the damn karaoke machine waiting ominously in the background just bidding its time to make its appearance...so yeah, i reckon it was great because the couple managed to gel their traditional indian customs with their modern influences so tastefully..to nav and mala..congrats darlings!!you dont have to be on each other's wavelength all the time to make your relationship work, you just have to be able to ride each other's waves...