Me?Judge?NEVER!

yeah..right.cos we all do y'know..we look at someone, we form an assumption.it might be fleeting, it might last for years..but its there..judgement. In a city where everyone's a little bit colder and the weather's a little bit warmer, where everything moves a little faster and our minds are filled with constant pressures, i guess its not out of the ordinary that we also learn to figure people out quicker.and along with that comes the dreaded j-word.which leads to insecurity. which leads to lack of self-conviction.which lead to a hell of alot of people worrying about what other people think of them instead of just being themselves which then leads on to more judgement.(of course,this wouldnt relate to any one of you reading this because you're such a together person right?:P)

i guess all that judgement and whatever we do with it eventually boils down to what we think of ourselves,how tough we are on ourselves..after all, we are our own worst critics,no? i reckon that although it might be human nature to judge, it is also human nature to change...thats the beauty of life, you evolve..and your final judgement only comes,well,when you're wormfood i suppose..and by then people only say nice things about you anyways (i mean,who the hell disses a dead person?)

so i'd like to think that my jury of peers are still out cos i'm gonna give them one helluva court case..